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the_fantastic_ms_foxI've had the flu this week, and it sucked.
Perhaps this sounds obvious to you. But to me it was not.
Last year, I was lying on the couch hacking up phlegm and thinking "My. This is unpleasant. I would like for this to be over."
Then I realized that this was unprecidented. In the past, as long as there was no pain, I'd never objected to being sick. I just acquiesced.
I am one of many people who've dealt with living in the wrong gender and body by staying in a state of partial dissasociation for most of my life. One where you don't put together ideas like "having the flu is no fun," "being cold is unpleasant" or "wow that hurts, maybe I should see a doctor."
When you and your body don't talk, the flu becomes an interesting cascade of altered body functions, no better or worse than the default operating state. I had the flu a couple years before changing my sex and I remember thinking was hhhhow currrriiouss, I seeem to be shhhakking tooooo haardd to tyypppe nnooormmalllly. II cooould bareeely siiit uupp eeaarlier.. Thiis iis unnnusuallly bbad. Iiif ittt ggetssss woorse, II suppppose I should telll soommeonnne.
I've heard transition described as "not male-to-female or female-to-male, but robot-to-human." Getting accustomed to a full spectrum of human experiences really is like watching Mr. Data on Star Trek getting his emotion chip installed.
When I don't see people I know and like, I get lonely - new
I am happier when I go outside now and then - new
My body seems to prefer healthy food over unhealthy food - new
Transsexuals aren't the only one to break the link between wearing a body and being in it. You can see similar behaviour, and similar pleasant surprise in learning to overcome it, in many people who've had some sort of bodily trauma that they stop or process, be it acute or prolonged
Perhaps this sounds obvious to you. But to me it was not.
Last year, I was lying on the couch hacking up phlegm and thinking "My. This is unpleasant. I would like for this to be over."
Then I realized that this was unprecidented. In the past, as long as there was no pain, I'd never objected to being sick. I just acquiesced.
I am one of many people who've dealt with living in the wrong gender and body by staying in a state of partial dissasociation for most of my life. One where you don't put together ideas like "having the flu is no fun," "being cold is unpleasant" or "wow that hurts, maybe I should see a doctor."
When you and your body don't talk, the flu becomes an interesting cascade of altered body functions, no better or worse than the default operating state. I had the flu a couple years before changing my sex and I remember thinking was hhhhow currrriiouss, I seeem to be shhhakking tooooo haardd to tyypppe nnooormmalllly. II cooould bareeely siiit uupp eeaarlier.. Thiis iis unnnusuallly bbad. Iiif ittt ggetssss woorse, II suppppose I should telll soommeonnne.
I've heard transition described as "not male-to-female or female-to-male, but robot-to-human." Getting accustomed to a full spectrum of human experiences really is like watching Mr. Data on Star Trek getting his emotion chip installed.
When I don't see people I know and like, I get lonely - new
I am happier when I go outside now and then - new
My body seems to prefer healthy food over unhealthy food - new
Transsexuals aren't the only one to break the link between wearing a body and being in it. You can see similar behaviour, and similar pleasant surprise in learning to overcome it, in many people who've had some sort of bodily trauma that they stop or process, be it acute or prolonged
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Date: 2009-05-03 05:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-05-03 05:18 am (UTC)whoa..
Date: 2009-06-03 04:25 am (UTC)Well,like at least once a day.
I did not realize that the disassociative issue was a general aspect of being gender-screwy.
That sounds like my entire life,I just thought it was my particular "extra fun" prize in this crappy life I have trying to deal with this.
It's interesting to know that many share this same problem.
I really enjoy your postings here. :) I dont get over here much,and I decided to see what groups there were for TG or androgyne folks.
And....I stumbled upon some of your posts about.
I like your attitude and humor and your information you bring. :)
thanks.^^ ~davi