If it makes simple sense, then you're doing it wrong

Scary either way: Surgery and hormones don't mix.
Androgen-blockers lower your blood pressure. Estradiol can cause blood clots. Since I need to be off them for two weeks before surgery, I start cutting down today.

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There's this spectrum that runs between genders.

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Where spectra fail:

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sometimes the only way to say the right thing is to use the wrong words.

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The deeper problem. The deeper solution.

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Another good approach, at least for us overly responsible and self-admonishing types, is to invert the golden rule and do unto ourselves as we would do unto others.


An even better piece of advice, that could have avoided all this if I can just learn to stick to it is:

No one has to justify themselves.

So stop worring about what what you think other people think you should do.

Just do what you want.

Be who you want.