Accepting compliments is delicate? Convoluted? Multifaceted? Tricky? Telling?
I'd only noticed it was a problem recently - actually someone said that
it was a problem and I should address it. Acknowledge and appreciate
the compliment. Thank them. Okeedokee, working on it.
But someone says something kind, insightful
and kind, and I'm flattered, not because of what they're saying, but
who they are. A kind word from someone like this: a dinner invite from
a pair of saints; a statement of work-ethic from a workaholic; a
description of interest and appreciation from a woman who's simply
amazing. It's not because they're authourities on the subject but because words
like these from people like these form a mirror where they see some
reflection of the best parts of themselves, a reflection different in
aspect, but the same in some way, and they mention this. Words from this are like an underground river, something that flows between and flows
deep and washes away that which has obscured something important.
And all I can think of doing is turning around and saying "you too." But it seems... cheap? Prompted? But it's true.