School: -this is why i do not go to school. it could never be more than a hobby, and it's too expensive for that.
Work: -i get pissy with the servers who can't even be bothered to rinse their dishes, even when we're really really slow and they haven't anything else to do. they come into my kitchen and make messes, don't clean them up, and five minutes later make special requests i grudgingly cater to.
Relationships: -you're allowed to be hurt and angry. you're even allowed to express that, in detail, to your intimate friends.
Gender: -doctors have a lot of responsibility placed on them. if they make mistakes, the consequences can be disastrous. changing ones body in such a drastic way can fuck up a LOT. it might be better for most people if they're slow.
-please tell me you're not blaming 'society'. how completely meaningless. it is not conscious. it is not out to get you. it will change with time. you'll just have to be a trailblazer. asking people to challenge their own accepted ideas of how to identify themselves and others is always going to be an uphill battle. if it's any consolation, it's better here than most other places. after all, i have reasonable reproductive rights, i'm allowed to vote, and i'm allowed to tell my father or husband he's full of shit.
-upset is situational, maybe you'll feel better when you're feeling more resolved.
Living-Space: -you must recognise me. i'm so annoying.
maybe not comforting, but honest.
Work: -i get pissy with the servers who can't even be bothered to rinse their dishes, even when we're really really slow and they haven't anything else to do. they come into my kitchen and make messes, don't clean them up, and five minutes later make special requests i grudgingly cater to.
Relationships: -you're allowed to be hurt and angry. you're even allowed to express that, in detail, to your intimate friends.
Gender: -doctors have a lot of responsibility placed on them. if they make mistakes, the consequences can be disastrous. changing ones body in such a drastic way can fuck up a LOT. it might be better for most people if they're slow.
-please tell me you're not blaming 'society'. how completely meaningless. it is not conscious. it is not out to get you. it will change with time. you'll just have to be a trailblazer. asking people to challenge their own accepted ideas of how to identify themselves and others is always going to be an uphill battle. if it's any consolation, it's better here than most other places. after all, i have reasonable reproductive rights, i'm allowed to vote, and i'm allowed to tell my father or husband he's full of shit.
-upset is situational, maybe you'll feel better when you're feeling more resolved.
Living-Space: -you must recognise me. i'm so annoying.