Also, the renaming was conducted by people who you believe (or at least, believed before and after) care about you and your well-being, regard you as a valued peer, would welcome your integration into society, etc. Even tho we deliberately broke aspects of the social contract, you knew on various levels that we would not literally attempt to destroy you - and it seems that right now you're in a place where making those assumption about the CFSers would be...difficult.

Re: renaming - I'm freeish after October 15th at this point. I think you should just have a 'coming out' party. See queer debutante.