I woldn't really call my stature "a problem;" more of "a privilege." I've had e-words with some taller butchy MtFs, and what you've said pretty much sums up some of their experiences of living as inadvertant "passing women."

One woman in particular: cissexed male to the world; butch cissexed female to her casual aquaintances; MTF to the people she is close to.

There is one advantage to being regularly read as someone who's trying very very hard to come across as a guy: it makes it easier to get into dyke events. (::twitch... twitch::)